Coaching.
Why not get some trained & experienced help to learn about Dating, Sex & Relationships... or Weight loss, Health & Wellness... or Adulting skills... or anything you want to learn, really? Don't be shy - we ALL need help learning life stuff sometimes!
Services I Currently Offer...
(all Coaching services are done by phone or video chat at this time)
Dating, Sex and Relationship Coaching
(Keep scrolling for other Coaching topics below!)
Choose from these options:
(Check out my OnlyFans too if you like, btw, for more of my offerings related to Love, Relationships & Sexuality...)
To Inquire or Book a session:
curiouskatydidbusiness@gmail.com
No need to go into super detail over email, fyi; I usually ask to do a 20-30 minute consult via video chat or phone first, so we can have more privacy!
One Hour of General Coaching: $125
Book an hour, or more, and ask me ANYTHING you want to know about sex, dating, romance or relationships! If I don't know the answer, we'll find it out together, discreetly... It's my pleasure to be your safe & supportive ally! We can research together, do pretend conversations to help you practice dialoguing with people; whatever you need as a trained, informed confidant to help you succeed!
I love working with folks of all identities, btw: straight cis men, straight cis women, LGBTQIA+ folks, couples, poly pods, vanilla, D/s, or kink!
Some example ways to use this service, if you're not sure what I mean...
"I'm single and trying to meet someone, but nothing is working. Help!"
"I want to try a certain thing in bed, but I'm not sure how to talk to my partner about it."
"Hey Katie, what IS BDSM, really? I hear so much about it in pop culture, but I want someone safe I can learn about it with."
"We're a couple and my partner can't get erections anymore. What do we do?"
"I'm a woman and I've never even kissed another woman, but I think I might be attracted to other women. What do I do?"
OR, book one of these tailored, themed packages...
Online & In-person Dating: Taking you from single-and-searching all the way to Successful IRL dates
A four hour sequence: $400
Or, pick one themed hour of your choice a la carte: $125
Hour 1. What are your Dating goals, really?
Hour 2. Developing (or overhauling) Your Online Profile - AND/OR - Creating strategies to meet people in person
Hour 3. Communicating Safely and Successfully Online & IRL & scoring that first Meet!
Hour 4. In-person Dating Skills that leave an Impression... The Good Kind, that is.
Then, you can choose, if you wish, to add:
30-minute follow-ups (e.g. want me to take a quick look with you at some of the folks you're hearing from? Give feedback on a quick change of photos?): $60
Mock Date, plus feedback.
Take Me on a Mock Date virtually, and I'll give you kind, but honest & useful feedback
An up-to 3 hour sequence.
ALL together: $300
A la carte combo of one or two of these hours:$125 per hour
1. One hour planning/preparatory skills chat
2. One hour virtual mock-date
3. One hour debrief & feedback
Sometimes, feedback is invaluable! Let's work "in vivo" (together in real time) to help build your dating confidence. Buy the package of all three hours, or cherry pick any combo you wish (like just the mock date and feedback only). If you choose the package, I usually recommend: the prep meeting Week 1, then the mock date Week 2, then the feedback hour about 48 hours later.
Besides Sex & Dating Coaching, I also offer...
Weight Loss & Wellness Coaching
Trying to lose weight or improve your health? I've been there myself: since 2016 I've lost and kept off over 90 lbs and counting, and I thankfully enjoy good health. I'd be happy to try to help you with your wellness goals as well!
One Hour of Wellness Coaching:
$125
Book 4 Hours or more: $110/hr
Let's chat about your Health & Wellness goals, what's worked and not worked before, and create a new plan to try to help!
Adulting & Life Skills Coaching
There's SO much we don't learn in school - How to Really Buy or Rent a House, Financial Skills, How to Start a Business, and more...What Life Skills would you like a trained & experienced buddy to help you figure out?
One Hour of Life Skills Coaching:
$125
Book 4 Hours or more: $110/hr
Tell me what Life Skills you're trying to slay? I'd be happy to help!
A Note on Coaching vs. Therapy...
A Coach is a trained, professional ally that helps you tackle goals, problems or questions you have in some area of life.
Kind of like an actual sports coach, they'll usually help by listening to your issue...then they'll use some combination of teaching you knowledge, providing supportive feedback, and helping to get you motivated in order to try to help you get there.
It's different from therapy. A therapist might say: "let's talk about whether you have clinical depression and how to manage it." Or, "let's talk about why your father is a painful subject for you."
A coach is likely going to say things like: "You're saying you have an unfulfilling job, and your goal is to find a fulfilling job. Let's look at how to figure that out. Why do you feel unfulfilled now? Just to be sure, do you think you could be depressed? Should we get an evaluation? Do you have ideas yet on what could be more fulfilling?"
As you can see, a coach usually supports you with Life Goals; a therapist will usually help you will mental illness, and the healing of trauma. Just in case clarity helps as you consider what kind of support you're looking for! If you think you need a therapist, and fairly quickly, I certainly recommend services like BetterHelp or 7cups.com.